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Play well online

A private self-check, healthy habits, sleep, subscriptions and passes, ranked play, chat safety, PEGI ratings, family settings and free UK help.

WP 01Why an online games site has this page

Online games never close. Friends are always on, seasons end on a date and events come round on a timetable that is not yours. That is part of what makes them good company, and it is why we think a review site owes its readers an honest page about the other side. This is what helps keep online play a good part of a full life.

WP 02Quick self-check

Thinking about the last few months, which of these are true for you?

This is a prompt for reflection, not a diagnosis. Your answers stay on this page and are never sent.

WP 03Before you log in

  • Decide how long you will play before the launcher opens, and set the timer your console, PC or phone already has. The pre-session check on our home page takes a minute.
  • Choose a rest point you can reach: the end of a match, a dungeon, a hunt or a quest step.
  • Tell your group when you are logging off. Friends make stopping harder only when they do not know.
  • Stop at the rest point, not at “one more”. Queues are built so there is always one more.
  • Keep a few evenings a week free of games. The week planner helps you lay them out.

WP 04Eyes, hands and back

  • Every twenty minutes, look at something about six metres away for twenty seconds.
  • Every hour, spend five to ten minutes away from the screen: stand up, stretch your hands, wrists and shoulders and drink some water. Queues and lobbies are good moments for it.
  • Sit with your back supported, the screen at eye level and the headset volume moderate.
  • If your hands, neck or eyes ache, or you feel dizzy or sick, stop playing, and talk to a GP if it keeps happening.

WP 05Sleep comes first

Finish at least an hour before bed. Bright screens, voice chat and close matches make it harder to fall asleep, and late-night raids borrow from the next day. Teenagers usually need eight to ten hours a night and adults seven to nine. If online play keeps eating into that, move it earlier in the evening.

WP 06Subscriptions, passes and shops

  • Agree a monthly amount before you log in, never in the middle of a session or a limited event.
  • Add up what a game costs over a year: subscription or membership, seasonal passes, expansions and the shop. The upkeep calculator does the sums.
  • Work out what gems, coins and points cost in pounds before spending them.
  • Avoid paid random items where you can: not knowing what you will get is exactly what makes them hard to stop buying.
  • UK industry principles say under-18s should not be able to buy paid random items without a parent or carer knowing. Platform spending limits are how that works at home.
  • Keep purchase approval on, remove saved cards from children’s accounts and cancel subscriptions you no longer use.

WP 07Events, streaks and FOMO

Daily rewards, login streaks, seasonal passes and limited-time events are built to bring you back on the game’s timetable instead of yours. Switch off game notifications, let a streak lapse without guilt and remember that most cosmetics and events return. A good game does not punish you for having a life.

WP 08Ranked play and frustration

Competitive games are thrilling and stressful in equal measure. Take a break after two losses in a row instead of queuing straight back in, mute or block players who spoil the match, and remember that a rank measures a few games, not a person. If anger starts carrying over into the rest of the evening, that is the moment to stop.

WP 09Strangers, chat and safety

  • Keep your full name, address, school, passwords and photos to yourself, and never share account details.
  • Use chat filters, and keep voice and text chat to people you know wherever you can.
  • Block and report anyone who is abusive, pushy, offers free items or currency, or asks you to move to a private app, send pictures or keep a secret.
  • Trades and “free currency” offers outside the official game are a common way to steal accounts. Turn on two-step sign-in.
  • If an adult’s contact with a child feels wrong, report it to CEOP. Internet Matters has step-by-step setup guides for every console and app.

WP 10Age ratings

Games sold in the UK carry PEGI age ratings: 3, 7, 12, 16 and 18. Content descriptors explain the reason for a rating, and separate notices flag in-game purchases and (includes random items). A rating covers what is in the game, not what other players say or do online. PEGI 12, 16 and 18 are legally enforced for games sold in UK shops, overseen by the Games Rating Authority. The PEGI label guide explains every symbol.

WP 11Family settings

Every major platform has free controls for play time, spending, age filters and who can chat or join a game: Xbox Family Settings, PlayStation Family Management, Nintendo Switch Parental Controls, Steam Families, Apple Screen Time and Google Family Link. Set them up together with your child and explain why. Rules agreed at the start work much better than rules imposed halfway through a match.

WP 12Comfort and accessibility

Read each game’s photosensitivity warning: a small number of people can have seizures triggered by flashing lights or patterns, sometimes with no previous history. Turn on reduced motion, lower camera shake, use subtitles, colour-blind modes and text-to-speech for chat whenever they help. Using them is still playing the game properly.

WP 13When gaming becomes a problem

The World Health Organization describes “gaming disorder” when gaming takes priority over other interests and daily life despite the harm it causes, usually for a year or more. Signs to watch for, in yourself or someone else:

  • regularly playing far longer than planned;
  • losing sleep or skipping meals, school, work or friends;
  • irritability, low mood or anxiety when not playing;
  • spending more than intended, or hiding it;
  • dropping other hobbies and people.

The NHS National Centre for Gaming Disorders treats people aged 13 and over in England and Wales, and a GP can point you to the right support anywhere in the UK.

WP 14Helping someone else

Start with curiosity rather than a verdict: ask who they play with, what they enjoy and how they feel after a long session. Agree small changes together instead of an outright ban, and remember that online friends can be real friends. If nothing improves, a GP or one of the services below can help.

WP 15Free, confidential help

Paid random items such as loot boxes, card packs and prize wheels share features with gambling: you pay before you know what you will get, which makes it easy to keep buying. If the time or money you put into online games feels out of control, for you or for someone you care about, these organisations help for free and in confidence:

  • GamCare

    Free, confidential advice and counselling for anyone whose play or spending feels out of control, and for the people around them. The National Gambling Helpline, 0808 8020 133, and live chat are open day and night.

    Visit GamCare

  • BeGambleAware

    An independent UK charity with confidential advice, a short self-assessment and a directory of free support and treatment near you.

    Visit BeGambleAware

  • Gambling Therapy

    Free online support from trained advisers, with peer groups and self-help tools you can use from home, in many languages.

    Visit Gambling Therapy

WP 16Urgent help and young people

Free and confidential, for anything that is troubling you, not only games:

  • Childline

    For anyone under 19, about anything at all, including something that happened online. Call 0800 1111 free, or talk to a counsellor online.

    Visit Childline

  • Samaritans

    Someone to talk to, day or night, whatever is going on. Call 116 123 free from any phone.

    Visit Samaritans

  • YoungMinds

    Mental health guidance for young people, and a helpline for parents and carers worried about a child.

    Visit YoungMinds

In an emergency, call 999. For urgent medical advice that is not an emergency, call NHS 111 or visit nhs.uk. You can also text SHOUT to 85258 for free, confidential support at any time.

WP 17For parents and carers

Play with your children now and then, and ask them to show you their favourite online world and who they meet there. Keep consoles in shared rooms where you can, agree screen-free times such as meals and the hour before bed, and aim for balance rather than bans.

WP 18How this site is built

Cindermoor has no accounts, notifications, streaks, countdown offers or rewards for coming back, and every tool on the hearth exists to help you stop. Questions about this guide are welcome through hello@cindermoor.co.uk.